J&J Chats: I might be a lesbian

February 20, 2020.Reading time 18 minutes.

The title says J and J chats. I was bisexual, but now I think I could be a lesbian.

Advice seeker tries to come to terms with being a lesbian, which is difficult due to some intersectionality with regards to race. Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Read all chats here. Read a similar chat about “bisexual or lesbian” here. […]

J&J Chats: Coming out later in the relationship

July 2, 2019.Reading time 9 minutes.

The title image states, J and J chats, coming out later in the relationship.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: A lesbian coming out later as bisexual in a relationship or vice versa.

J&J Chats: Confessing an ex-crush

July 1, 2019.Reading time 8 minutes.

The title states, J and J chats, confessiong an ex crush.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: Telling an old crush that you used to have a crush on them.

J&J Chats: Texting through bpd arguments

June 28, 2019.Reading time 13 minutes.

the title image states, J and J chats. texting through bpd arguments.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: Should you work through a bad BPD moment via text?

J&J Chats: My boyfriend has homophobic friends

June 27, 2019.Reading time 10 minutes.

the image states, J and J chats, my boyfriend has homophobic friends.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: [Gay man] has a boyfriend who is friends with people who make homophobic comments.

J&J Chats: Online Friends

June 26, 2019.Reading time 15 minutes.

the image states, J and J chats, online friends.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: How to make friends online.