Hopeless Changes Over Time: A Halsey Concert Essay

January 16, 2020.Reading time 36 minutes.

The title states, Hopeless Changes Over Time.

The Prologue I spent the whole summer of 2017 trying to convince myself I’d survive the year without attending Halsey’s Hopeless Fountain Kingdom concert in Detroit. After a few months traveling the States with my girlfriend, I reserved my savings for student loan backup payments between paychecks. I couldn’t justify dipping into the savings for […]

Is tolerance enough?

November 19, 2019.Reading time 7 minutes.

The title states, Tolerance versus Acceptance. What is tolerance and is it enough?

This Saturday was International Day for Tolerance, dedicated by the United Nations. So, let’s talk tolerance, shall we?

How to Dress Gay (pt. 6): A style of inner peace

September 30, 2019.Reading time 10 minutes.

The title states, how to dress gay, part 6. A style of inner peace.

My personal style and the gay dress code finally find harmony and balance. (Part 6/6. Start from the beginning here.)

100th post on AL&HL

September 11, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

This is my 100Th post with A Lesbian and Her Laptop! Let the appreciation begin! (Don’t miss my button giveaway!)

Am I a Predator? Inside the mind of a touch-starved queer woman

July 18, 2019.Reading time 18 minutes.

Many queer girls grow up overthinking casual touches between them and other girls for fear of these interactions being misinterpreted, misunderstood, or turned against us as part of a gross stereotype.

Sharing experiences to build bridges: An open letter to LGBTQIA+ people on inter-community tension

July 3, 2019.Reading time 28 minutes.

There are 12 pride flags as follows. LGBTQ flag with people of color stripes, lesbian, gay, trans, agender, asexual, pansexual, bisexual, genderfluid, nonbinary, intersex, and genderqueer.

LGBTQIA+ people face a large number of issues both inside and outside of our community. Let’s work on unifying ourselves and facing challenges together by understanding each other’s unique experiences across our diverse subcommunities. It starts with listening and sharing, and I invite you all to be a part of this discussion.

J&J Chats: My boyfriend has homophobic friends

June 27, 2019.Reading time 10 minutes.

the image states, J and J chats, my boyfriend has homophobic friends.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: [Gay man] has a boyfriend who is friends with people who make homophobic comments.