Am I a Predator? Inside the mind of a touch-starved queer woman

July 18, 2019.Reading time 18 minutes.

Many queer girls grow up overthinking casual touches between them and other girls for fear of these interactions being misinterpreted, misunderstood, or turned against us as part of a gross stereotype. Advertisements

HIMMGF–Part 20–Waiting 3.0

July 12, 2019.Reading time 11 minutes.

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Welcome back to “How I Met my Girlfriend!” Catch up on all the posts in this series here.

J&J Chats: Biphobia and lesbophobia in relationships

June 29, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

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Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: Lesbians who refuse to date bisexuals and bisexuals who refuse to date lesbians.

Lesbian Visibility: Power in Labels

April 26, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

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Identity for me is something I hold dear to my heart. There’s a lot of people who won’t define themselves with aspects of who they are, but I find it extremely empowering. (By Lauren). Check out all Lesbian Visibility posts this week.

Lesbian Visibility: So Are You Actually a Lesbian?

April 25, 2019.Reading time 3 minutes.

A young woman with dark long hair stands in front of a graphic lesbian flag. The image states, lesbians and their laptops, visibility week, Courtney. So, are you actually a lesbian?

I got into my first proper relationship at 19 with a wonderful individual called Jasmine (Jimi for short). (By Courtney). Check out all Lesbian Visibility posts this week.

How to Make the Distance Work: Long-Distance Activities

April 18, 2019.Reading time 16 minutes.

Finding fun activities to do with your partner can be a big win for communication and combatting the Big Sad. Looking for new long-distance activities can be pretty bleak sometimes, so let my list of fun stuff give you some fresh ideas to try out. (5/6. Link to intro and other parts here.)

How to Make the Distance Work: Your Partner and Your Friends/Family

April 11, 2019.Reading time 15 minutes.

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Distance can sometimes make it difficult to keep your partner an integral member of your social circles. Encouraging a good relationship between your partner and your friends/family is a big way to keep them from feeling disconnected from your life. (3/6. Link to intro and other parts here.)