“Are you sisters?” and other hetrifying reactions to WLW relationships

October 17, 2019.Reading time 15 minutes.

A graphic shows holding hands. The title states, Are you sisters? and other hetrifying reactions to WLW reationships.

Hetrify [verb]: Coined by social media influencer and artist Florence Given, to be ‘hetrified’ is to be bombarded by heteronormative narratives. Advertisements

How to Dress Gay (pt. 5): Gay tees and rainbows

September 17, 2019.Reading time 12 minutes.

The Gay Dress Code wasn’t working as obviously as I’d wanted at the time, so I resorted to some obvious, but still lowkey additions to my wardrobe. (Part 5/6. Start from the beginning here.)

National Girlfriends Day

August 1, 2019.Reading time 32 minutes.

Today is National Girlfriends Day! I know I’ve shared a lot of my girlfriend, Jas, with you all already in my How I Met My Girlfriend series, but I’m sharing some more today! Like the sappy lesbian I am, I’ve saved a lot of the messages and letters we exchanged at the beginning of our […]

Am I a Predator? Inside the mind of a touch-starved queer woman

July 18, 2019.Reading time 18 minutes.

Many queer girls grow up overthinking casual touches between them and other girls for fear of these interactions being misinterpreted, misunderstood, or turned against us as part of a gross stereotype.

HIMMGF–Part 20–Waiting 3.0

July 12, 2019.Reading time 11 minutes.

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Welcome back to “How I Met my Girlfriend!” Catch up on all the posts in this series here.

J&J Chats: Biphobia and lesbophobia in relationships

June 29, 2019.Reading time 14 minutes.

the title image states, J and J chats, biphobia and lesbophobia in relationships.

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend). Topics sent anonymously via curious cat. Current topic: Lesbians who refuse to date bisexuals and bisexuals who refuse to date lesbians.

Lesbian Visibility: Power in Labels

April 26, 2019.Reading time 4 minutes.

A young woman with a walker stands in front of the lesbian pride flag. The image states, lesbians and their laptops, visibility week, Lauren. Power in labels.

Identity for me is something I hold dear to my heart. There’s a lot of people who won’t define themselves with aspects of who they are, but I find it extremely empowering. (By Lauren). Check out all Lesbian Visibility posts this week.