Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend).
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How to make online friends and keep a conversation going. How to build real and healthy relationships online.
A guy’s boyfriend has homophobic religious friends. How to find a compromise.
Should people text through a “bad bpd” moment or wait to call and work it out?
Lesbians who refuse to date bisexuals and bisexuals who refuse to date lesbians.
Coming out as bisexual in a relationship after entering the relationship as a lesbian and vice versa.
“Is it possible to form true friendships based on a need for support?”
How to help a long-distance friend or partner through a difficult time for them.
Am I sexist for not being romantically attracted to men?
Previously identifying as bisexual and trying to come to terms with the lesbian label, struggling in part due to being Asian.
Encountered an aggressive homophobic experience after holding a girlfriend’s hand in a nightclub.