J&J Chats

Welcome to J&J Chats! A series of advice and discourse discussions from J (Jess) & J (Jas, aka, my girlfriend).

Your questions can be answered and featured in a J&J Chat with a $2/month Patreon subscription or a $3 one-time purchase through AL&HL’s commission menu. You may also send advice requests anonymously via curious cat, but we limit the number of CCs selected for a Chat.

Identity questions and coming out


Homophobia (biphobia, lesbophobia)


Boderline Personality Disorder